Golfing disaster

I haven't been golfing for two weeks, because of a pulled muscle in my back.  I really muscle the club around sometimes.  Remember:  Timing and excellerate through the ball releasing the club to hit the ball square.  Gah!!  Took the kids golfing today and my back was okay, but my son decided to have a meltdown on the second hole.  Instead of allowing his behavior to piss me off, I just didn't let him play and he had to follow my daughter and me around the course.  After a few holes I asked him if he wanted to play, but the little monster said no.  He can get really cranky playing golf and yet he says he likes playing.  I think it is more a brother and sister thing than a golf thing.